1. No man wants a woman who is accessible to every man.  

   This isn't just about exclusivity; it's about valuing oneself. A woman who knows her worth doesn't feel the need to be available to everyone. She understands that her time and attention are precious, and she reserves them for those who truly appreciate and respect her.

2. You will reach the age where you can easily tell that the relationship is not going to work just by the conversation.

With experience comes wisdom. As we grow, we become more attuned to the nuances in conversations that hint at incompatibility. It's not just about what is said, but how it's said. Tone, body language, and even silence can speak volumes about the potential longevity of a relationship.

3. If you have to beg someone to do the bare minimum for you and if you have to keep telling them how you deserve to be treated better, then for goodness sake, LEAVE. It's not worth your peace.

Self-respect is paramount. A relationship should be a partnership where both parties willingly contribute. If you find yourself constantly pleading for basic decency, it's a sign to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being by stepping away.

4. Don’t ignore the red flags you see at the beginning. The red flags you ignore trying to see the good in people WILL cost you later.

Red flags are there for a reason—they're warnings. While it's noble to see the good in people, it's also crucial to recognize patterns of behavior that could lead to future heartache. Trust your instincts and prioritize your safety and happiness.

5. Just because a person keeps you around doesn’t mean they love you; remember, people buy cats just to get rid of rats.

Being kept around doesn't equate to being cherished. Sometimes, people maintain relationships out of convenience rather than genuine affection. It's important to discern whether you're valued for who you are or merely for the role you play in someone else's life.

6. If s3x is all you are about in a relationship, then it means you are actually empty. A healthy relationship is about purpose! Sharing visions and values together.  

Physical intimacy is just one aspect of a relationship. True connection comes from shared goals, mutual respect, and aligned values. A fulfilling relationship is one where both partners inspire and support each other's personal growth.

7. In life, you need to learn to stop opening doors for toxic people and giving them room in your mind, and calling it "seeking closure!" You're delaying your healing process.  

Closure is often an illusion. Sometimes, the best way to heal is to move forward without looking back. Allowing toxic individuals to linger in your thoughts only prolongs the pain. Focus on your journey and surround yourself with positivity.

8. Avoid the damaged, the unhappy, and the unlucky.  

While it's important to be compassionate, it's also vital to protect your own energy. Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you. It's okay to offer support, but don't let others' negativity drag you down.

9. Anger opens the mouth and shuts the mind. Control your anger so that you can think fast and get solutions to what caused your anger.

Anger can cloud judgment and lead to regrettable actions. Practicing emotional regulation allows you to approach conflicts with a clear mind, enabling constructive solutions rather than reactive outbursts.

10. As a woman, understand that men will say and do anything to sleep with you. Look at the actions, don’t be blinded by words. Anyone can talk a good game, but it takes a real ball player to play.

Words can be deceptive, but actions reveal true intentions. Pay attention to consistency between what is said and what is done. A genuine partner will demonstrate their feelings through actions that align with their words.

In essence, these insights encourage self-awareness, self-respect, and the pursuit of meaningful connections. By recognizing these truths, you can navigate relationships with confidence and clarity, ensuring that your time and energy are invested in those who truly value you.